As recently as a couple months ago, I witnessed toddlers interacting/talking to their parents in a completely indecipherable language. I could NOT figure out how parents actually had a conversation with these learning talkers, or even began to comprehend what they wanted or needed.
Now I understand! I have one of my own. I think only a child's parents or primary caregivers can truly translate this language (somewhere between first words and three to four-word phrases). Unless you know a child's habits and dialect, so to speak, only a small portion of their words will make sense (at least for a little bit, at least in boys).
Here are some of Cameron's habits:
- Cutting his word in half and only saying the second half. Just being a lazy talker! I know he knows the words, but sometimes he'll just feel like saying "Dee" for Daddy, "T" for eat, etc.
- When using words that end in "n," he almost always adds a "t" sound as well. I know he can say n's, because he starts words with them, but it is evidently much more difficult to end them that way! Examples: moon(t), spoon(t), down(t), bean(t).
- Adding a "b" sound to words that start with "u." Examples (b)up, (b)uh-oh.
- Mastering to perfection words that he doesn't use the most, or need to know necessarily, but enjoys saying. Things like pickle, einsteins, cookie, wipes.
I think this is normal - he's had his hearing checked and seems to comprehend what he needs to. He hasn't regressed persay. I'm trying not to get too overboard...I want him to speak well but I don't, for example, deny him things until he says the right word - that just ends in frustration. I feel like he knows it in his head, but until he decides to make a real effort to have it come out of his mouth...no dice.
Dice, by the way, is a word he can say quite well. ;)
2 comments:
Yeah. Every child is so different. My oldest was talking in full sentences by the time she was 19 months. Then there's Tavi (#3) and at 21 months, she is just starting to pick up words. They just have to go at their own pace.
You are observing well....I don't think they can even test kids well until 2 or 3 to get a handle on what they can or cannot do...the tests are easy enough though if you get too worried, I know great places in the area!!! :)
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